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Q&A Should I make the gender of the narrator more obvious?

The reason you think it's obvious is that you assume that only a woman would be having a romantic dinner with a man. Your baseline assumption is that everyone is straight. There is absolutely nothi...

posted 10y ago by Lauren Ipsum‭  ·  last activity 4y ago by System‭

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#4: Attribution notice removed by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-13T12:00:22Z (over 4 years ago)
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#3: Attribution notice added by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-08T03:27:56Z (over 4 years ago)
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#2: Initial revision by (deleted user) · 2019-12-08T03:27:56Z (over 4 years ago)
The reason you think it's obvious is that you assume that only a woman would be having a romantic dinner with a man. Your baseline assumption is that everyone is straight. There is absolutely nothing in the text which precludes the narrator from being a gay or bi man having a romantic dinner with another gay or bi man.

If you want to assert her gender, you could throw in a bit of third-person description, like:

> So I wasn't surprised when people decided to keep a distance from "the lemming lady."

Or the narrator's date could use her name:

> "That's what your research is about, Sonya?"

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2014-04-05T13:30:42Z (about 10 years ago)
Original score: 4