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Q&A How do you decide whether to use the infinitive or -ing version of a verb?

I think it's subjective. To my ear, to avoid is a series of individual events, while avoiding implies something continuous and ongoing. "She started to avoid me" sounds like "I called her and she ...

posted 9y ago by Lauren Ipsum‭  ·  last activity 4y ago by System‭

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#2: Initial revision by (deleted user) · 2019-12-08T04:14:27Z (over 4 years ago)
I think it's subjective. To my ear, _to avoid_ is a series of individual events, while _avoiding_ implies something continuous and ongoing.

"She started to avoid me" sounds like "I called her and she didn't return my call. The next day I texted her but she didn't text back. Two days later I sent her an email which she never opened."

"She started avoiding me" sounds like "I walked in the room and she immediately left, and when I followed her she left the building."

That's just my opinion; others may hear them as interchangeable. They're both right, and I think the nuance of difference is so subtle that you could use either purely depending on which one you liked the sound of.

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2015-05-09T15:04:00Z (almost 9 years ago)
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