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Q&A How can I respond to praise without appearing egotistical?

Background Alright, so my friends and English teacher recently found out that I've written novels, and asked to read them. So, I gave them out because I have plenty of self-confidence and really e...

2 answers  ·  posted 8y ago by Daniel Cann‭  ·  last activity 5y ago by System‭

#3: Attribution notice added by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-08T05:44:16Z (about 5 years ago)
Source: https://writers.stackexchange.com/q/25216
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#2: Initial revision by user avatar Daniel Cann‭ · 2019-12-08T05:44:16Z (about 5 years ago)
## Background

Alright, so my friends and English teacher recently found out that I've written novels, and asked to read them. So, I gave them out because I have plenty of self-confidence and really enjoy writing. I let my friends read them and my teacher. All I've got now is massive, non-stop praise, about how 'good I am'. My friends have told me that everything interlinks and cliffhangers keep them going, and they love the characters, but my teacher went a step further and told me that _I'm going to be famous._ **No!** I'll probably never even get my work published.

Of course, I have had plenty of criticism. For example, in some places my descriptions are too long and I need to break it up, or in other parts my meaning isn't too clear. I love criticism because I think its the only way to be a stronger writer. But, I've got praise from literally everyone I know now, about how it 'all comes together' and 'characters'. At least I know those are my strong-points.

## Question

**Almost every author loves their work and has a big ego when it comes to writing.** So, how can I respond to _oh you're going to be famous_ and whatever? Here's my question:

> **How can I respond to praise without appearing egotistical, or obsessive about my work?**

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2016-11-13T11:55:55Z (about 8 years ago)
Original score: 7