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Q&A How to get the "back again" part after horrible experience?

If you want to write sensitively and authentically about personal trauma, you have pretty much two choices: Endure it yourself. I don't recommend choosing to undergo this. Talk to other people wh...

posted 8y ago by Lauren Ipsum‭  ·  last activity 5y ago by System‭

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#4: Attribution notice removed by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-13T12:00:41Z (almost 5 years ago)
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#3: Attribution notice added by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-08T05:49:10Z (almost 5 years ago)
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#2: Initial revision by (deleted user) · 2019-12-08T05:49:10Z (almost 5 years ago)
If you want to write sensitively and authentically about personal trauma, you have pretty much two choices:

1. Endure it yourself. I don't recommend choosing to undergo this.

2. Talk to other people who have endured trauma, or possibly people who counsel trauma victims. 

Creating a real, rounded character who has suffered and then learned to adapt and grow past the pain requires lengthy, detailed observation of the human spirit. If you can't do this from the inside, you must do it from the outside, and if you can't do it at all, write something else.

Please don't write a story about someone who suffers terrible things and then brushes it off and all is well at the end. It reads as cheap and phony and offends people who really have suffered.

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2016-12-24T14:21:51Z (almost 8 years ago)
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