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Q&A How do you get over the fear of exposing yourself in writing?

I have resorted more than once to citing Neil Gaiman's 2012 address Make Good Art. Let me quote from it here too: The moment that you feel that, just possibly, you're walking down the street na...

posted 6y ago by Galastel‭  ·  last activity 5y ago by System‭

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#4: Attribution notice removed by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-12T21:57:28Z (almost 5 years ago)
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#3: Attribution notice added by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-08T09:57:21Z (almost 5 years ago)
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#2: Initial revision by (deleted user) · 2019-12-08T09:57:21Z (almost 5 years ago)
I have resorted more than once to citing Neil Gaiman's 2012 address _[Make Good Art](https://www.uarts.edu/neil-gaiman-keynote-address-2012)_. Let me quote from it here too:

> The moment that you feel that, just possibly, you're walking down the street naked, exposing too much of your heart and your mind and what exists on the inside, showing too much of yourself. That's the moment you may be starting to get it right.

You _should_ be exposing yourself. You _should_ be laying yourself naked before the audience. That's when your art has truth in it, that's when it has substance. That's when it is no longer superficial.

And _of course_ you will be judged. Unless your work is bland (in which case you will be judged for blandness), it will evoke strong emotions, and hopefully thoughts. If you make readers consider an idea, or maybe reconsider it, some will agree with you and others will disagree. If you've put emotion in your writing, people will be strongly agreeing or strongly disagreeing with you. People were passionately condemning Lord Byron, and others were defending him with equal passion. Remarque's _All Quiet on the Western Front_ was heavily criticised for what it exposed, and is admired for what it exposed. The moment you touch a truth, people will be responding to it, and you can't expect them all to respond positively.

You fear exposing aspects of yourself that you're not happy with? You're human, you're not supposed to be perfect. That's a truth. Your imperfections are a truth you can touch in your art. We all have things we're ashamed of. You shine a light into those dark corners, make us actively notice and think of them - that's a good thing.

Don't fear it - embrace it.

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2018-10-13T21:52:32Z (about 6 years ago)
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