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Q&A How to keep romance out of my novel?

The most famous ship of all (perhaps the one that started it) is K/S aka Kirk/Spock. Even though both characters have been portrayed as 100% straight. Many other characters have been shipped in...

posted 5y ago by Cyn‭  ·  last activity 4y ago by System‭

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#4: Attribution notice removed by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-20T00:40:38Z (over 4 years ago)
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#3: Attribution notice added by user avatar System‭ · 2019-12-08T10:56:36Z (over 4 years ago)
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#2: Initial revision by (deleted user) · 2019-12-08T10:56:36Z (over 4 years ago)
The most famous ship of all (perhaps the one that started it) is K/S aka [Kirk/Spock](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kirk/Spock). Even though both characters have been portrayed as 100% straight.

Many other characters have been shipped in ways that go against their sexual orientation and/or other partner preferences. Including in cases when the work isn't heteronormative.

Ace characters will not be any different here. Readers do what readers do.

It's not clear to me if Kem is asexual or simply not interested in romance or hookups right now. Either way, just show them as things are. Either by describing friendships and desires for non-romantic non-physical emotional intimacy, or by explicitly stating that they are Ace (or not in that headspace now).

As for the readers, let it go. We should all be so lucky to have readers who interact with our characters on a personal level. Even if we aren't happy with what they do with them. It's not something you can control, though you can be clear that it wouldn't be canon, should you be asked to approve fan fiction or something.

#1: Imported from external source by user avatar System‭ · 2019-02-21T18:54:59Z (about 5 years ago)
Original score: 2