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To answer this question, I think it would be useful to look at The Lord of the Rings. We are explicitly told that Frodo is "chosen" for the task: Bilbo was meant to find the Ring, and not by it...
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To answer this question, I think it would be useful to look at _The Lord of the Rings_. We are explicitly told that Frodo is "chosen" for the task: > Bilbo was _meant_ to find the Ring, and not by its maker. In which case you also were _meant_ to have it (J.R.R. Tolkien, _The Lord of the Rings_, book 1, chapter 2 - The Shadow of the Past) Yet we do not feel, at any point while reading the LOTR, that Frodo is "chosen", "irreplaceable", "the only hero who could save the day". Why? I believe three elements are involved: First, many other characters in the same story have their own crucial tasks. Is Aragorn replaceable, could the Battle of the Pelennor Fields have been won without him? Are Merry and Pippin replaceable? Is Eowyn? **If _every_ character is "chosen" for a particular crucial task, then none are "the chosen".** Frodo's task is one among many. While without his mission, everything else would have been futile, without any of the others, Frodo would have gained a rather pyrrhic victory. Second, there is Sam. When Frodo is wounded by Shelob and captured by orcs, it is Sam who saves the quest. Sam is not merely a "sidekick" without whom Frodo could not have succeeded - he is the **"backup plan"**. He could, if need be, finish the quest. In fact, it is never made clear just how far Frodo was "meant" to succeed. And Elrond explicitly says that Sam is "meant" to go with Frodo. Third, Frodo himself is rather weak and incompetent, compared to other "chosen ones" in the genre. **He cannot carry the quest on his shoulders**. And he is very aware of his own limitations, even as he tries his best to rise to the occasion. The quest would have failed a hundred times over, had it not been for the help of others. That last one is particularly realistic. No man is an island. No one can achieve what they set out to achieve without the help of many many others. In which case, they are not all that special, are they?